Picture each individual walking around with what looks like a transparent box above their head. Imagine this box contains the recipe for their marital relationships. Next to this box is an equal sign with a lower case t which stands for truth. What does your recipe box for relationships have in it and what is …
When I work with couples in counseling, my very first “homework assignment” for them is almost always implementing weekly date nights. I’ve recognized the importance of regular one-on-one time in maintaining emotional closeness with your partner and it is a fairly simple first step to reconnecting. Some couples have difficulty finding babysitters or money may …
Think it over. The interesting thing about an argument between two people is in most cases, neither walks away feeling all that happy or refreshed. Even if you have the opportunity to be “right” (keeping in mind that in marriage when your partner loses-you lose), it’s unlikely your satisfaction from “winning the argument” will outlast …
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Have you ever been deceived and wondered how to move forward? How do you go about re-establishing the trust that has been lost or tainted? Consider these areas as you begin the journey of emotional healing. Unleash your energy to fix what’s wrong It’s that subtle shift between pushing ourselves to being accountable in the …
Do you wonder if you have good communication as a couple? Are there things you can’t talk about? Do you find yourself wondering why, if you have a good relationship, you struggle talking about certain topics? Communication can be difficult. Most of us are either worried about offending someone or are worried we will start …
All of us have felt the stinging pain and bitterness of being lied to by someone we care about. Our minds are bombarded by questions and doubts. Why did they lie? Has this person lied to me before? Can there ever be trust between us again? The remorseful perpetrator of the offense also feels pain, …
Most of us are taught at a young age to say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ along with other polite ways to interact with others. We are taught to be kind to people, treat others the way we would want to be treated, and to be considerate of others. Well, some people might not be taught …
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The way you view yourself, your partner and your relationship makes a big difference as to how you relate and see self and the other. Some basic insights into relationship dynamics explained here will help bring a more balanced perspective to your relationship. No-one is broken, but everyone is damaged. The business of being a …
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After a couple has been together for a while, the excitement of a new relationship wears off and they often begin to slowly disconnect from each other. This is a normal part of a relationship, however, over time, if a couple isn’t making an effort to stay connected, they begin to feel unhappy in their …
Dr. Swinton wrote a great article for Digital Romance. Click here to read his great advice – and don’t let go of your spouse: http://digitalromanceinc.com/mens/let-her-go-how-to-know/
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