Couples on the same page: Couples (or separated/divorced parents) always need to be on the same page when in comes to discipline. Often parents disagree with something the other parent did to discipline a child. If the other parent issues a punishment that you disagree with, support them in front of the kids. Then, talk with the other parent about it behind closed doors. Never threaten the other parent’s authority in front of the children. Research has shown that parents who take a united approach are better able to manage the stresses of parenting. If you find it difficult to take a united front because of disagreements, some couples counseling may be helpful.